Monday, January 4, 2010

Learning to be happy coming in Second

I love being second. I'm glad to know that God comes first in my husband's life. Because without a relationship with God, how can he have an effective relationship with me? I truly believe that for any relationship to work, there has to be a love for God first. God lays it all out in his word, how a man is to treat his women. The Bible can be used as a relationship tool, if we will just pick it up and read it. I will list a couple Bible verses to help.

Eph. 5:25

Eph. 5:22-24

Gen 2:20-22

The verses tell us about being submissive, a helper, and how a man is suppose to treat us as he does the church. Meaning that if he loves the church, meaning God, he will treat or love you the way he does the Lord. Which should and could be a beautiful thing. If he treats you this way, you will not mind submitting and being his helper. Be blessed!