We’ve all heard the quotes, “When life gives you lemons,
make lemonade. When life throws you
punches, don’t give up!” We often see
other people’s issues and problems but, we never think it’s going to happen to
us. Life has a way of turning upside
down. It can force you to put certain things
in perspective! I’ve always been a family girl.
I love my husband and kids. We go
on trips, to the park, have family night.
I’ve always been a forgiver when it comes to my family despite how difficult
it can be at times. My husband and I are
forgivers…because we know that God has forgiven us. This is even more so important, when life
throws us lemons and punches. Life can
simply change at a blink of an eye.
I find myself now struggling to wrap my mind around the
diagnosis that was given to my mother.
My mother and I have always had a strange relationship, or for some, the
typical mother daughter relationship. We
would argue and make back up. Sometimes,
it would take a little longer to make up, depending on the circumstances. Despite the rough patches, the little girl in
me thought my parents would live forever (my heart smiles). I know they are both alive now, but one isn’t
feeling so well.
Some Christian friends are saying, “Don’t claim the diagnosis!”
While others are saying, “This is the opportunity for God’s glory to shine
through healing.” Despite what anyone
says, our life is forever changed. I
find myself asking, “Is it better to watch your parent slowly die or is it
better to be taken by surprise?” I know
neither is good. My husband and cousin
both said, they would rather be in my situation. I have time to say, I love you. I have time to take her to get her nails
done, laugh, play, and cry together.
I keep telling myself that we are all dying each day. So, her situation is no different. No one really knows the day or the hour of
the coming of the Lord. I’m learning how to find comfort in that. Is that even possible? I believe in the afterlife. Our afterlife is supposed to be even better
than this life. It is supposed to have
mansions, no pain, and no sorrow. This is
what we as Christians believe God for, eternal life. Can’t help but ask, why is it so hard to let
go of the people in this world? Especially,
if we know that heaven will eventually be our home…. I’m still meditating on
that question.
As of right now, I’m still hopeful and prayerful. I’m taking each day one day at a time, being
mindful of self-care, time, and relationships.
My advice to you is to live each day to its fullest. Enjoy one another. If individuals aren’t adding to your life LET
THEM GO! Reach for the stars. Leave a legacy…people will always remember
you for what you stand for.